Home!!!

We are happy to be home! The trip home was long! 26 hours long but uneventful. Kiddos we’re  all amazing and played in their iPads, watched tv and slept.  We were met at the airport by my sister Tricia and her family and that was so great.

Jet lag has been tough and we are all exhausted and waking up way too early. I am beyond exhausted today and feel a little in a daze.

Ashling is a rock star. She is is adjusting so well to the overwhelming changes being thrown at her: we planned a low- key weekend but have had a bunch of visitors and she has done really well. Can’t thank everyone enough who stopped by! We have been feeling very lucky with all the friends and family who stopped by and all the generosity ( can’t wait for the massage-  thanks Mary!) Really looking forward to seeing everyone else!! The picture on the right is me showing Ashling her new room. She seems to really like it so far and is sleeping in her bed….although getting up super early.

She loved meeting grandma and grandpa today and got her first American girl doll! She has done ok with “American kids  food” so far- liked pizza, loved strawberries, hated bagels and mac and cheese but I have been happy to make her Asian noodles and rice.

The one hiccup (and it’s a small one) has been Ashling’s extreme dislike of our dog Madra and it’s extreme but I am sure it will pass.

Overall things continue to be going really well.

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Going to miss this place

Good byes have been said, bags packed- I can’t believe this trip is over. There really are no words to express how thankful we are. We truly love this country  ( the people, the sights, and the food) and had such an a memorable and fun trip! However, even more than an amazing trip- we gained a beautiful daughter.

While we are sad to leave, the kids are ready to go home and we are ready to show Ashling real life and introduce her to our family, friends and her new world.

A few days before we left, I was running around getting stuff and saw these 3 matching  outfits and HAD to get them. Considering how little luggage we could bring, it was crazy to pack them but I had too! We got so many beautiful  pictures of the kids in them today.

Spent the day at the amusement park and pool. Had a farewell dinner with our Taiyuan travel group- it was hard saying goodbye. We were very lucky with our group and look forward to watching those amazing kiddos grow up!  Before we left, I connected with a mom on Facebook and it was perfect to end the trip with a glass of wine with her. Thankful for some new friendships.

Tomorrow is a long day. We get picked up at 5 am China time for an 8 am flight. We have a 3+ hour flight to Beijing, a 5 hour layover and then a 15 hour flight home.  Fingers crossed for as smooth of a day as possible. It’s going to be long.

Can’t wait to show Ashling her room, her toys, her extended family and her friends. But wow i am really going to miss being on vacation with Domhnall and the kids and getting to experience adventures everyday.   Also going to miss this country and all it has given our family. We will be back… for vacation!!

How did we get so lucky?

“How did we get so lucky?” seems to be our favorite phrase. Today was another memorable day but I think the highlight was  the hour long dance party in our room tonight (way tooo late). Ashling is incredible!

Today was packed! We joined friends at a local park which has lots of rides. The kids loved them and Keira scared me on a ride she was tall enough for but probably not old enough for.

The reason I included the pic of Ashling as a mess above is because it makes sure me happy.  She has skinned knees from playing with her siblings, she is wearing Keira’s dress because her clothes got dirty at the amusement park, and she has ice cream dripping all over her because she wanted it. All so different than her life in two rooms and she loves it!!

Afterwards, we hit the jade and pearl wholesale markets with a guide (thanks Catherine for the reccomendation) and purchased a piece of jade for our home and some beautiful jewlwey for me and for the kiddos when they get older. Just when we were about to pay for three “wedding quality” sets, I said we better throw in a fourth – just in case. LOL. I cant believe the pieces we got!!

Ended the night at the Hotel lounge for dinner and drinks. Ashling had. some day today –  in a huge thunderstorm and loved every minute of it. So many firsts!

Can’tIMG_0088 believe tomorrow’s is our last day here. I am going to miss China ( and hotel life) so much but can’t wait to introduce Ashling to her real life,

 

 

 

 

Final Stretch

We have been away 2 weeks now but it feels like a lot longer because of all the experiences (and Ashling!) over the last 2 weeks.

This morning/early afternoon were filled with an uneventful consulate appointment. Lesson learned is don’t open the brown envelope before immigration or we are coming back!  After a long morning, we had an easy afternoon before heading on the Pearl River Boat cruise. The weather has been bad this week (rainy and humid) but despite the fog and mist we braved the weather for a fun boat trip. Guangzhou is such a huge city (16 million) and so lit up (think Vegas) that’s its fun to look at the building. We learned a 3 bedroom apartment on the river costs about $4 million US dollars which is shocking considering we had a feast (with beer) for lunch at an upscale restaurant for $25. The kids had a great time with their new friends… Ashling had another great day and is just all smiles and laughs.

Adoption wise we are done! All the kidddos in our group passed the TB test (thankfully otherwise its a 8 week stay in China for their parents) and now we just wait for the visa to be issued and enjoy a few free days of sight seeing.  Can’t believe we are in the final stretch…. going to miss this place.

Tomorrow I plan on doing some major shopping 🙂

Great Day!!

Today was a great day! We went to Chgimelong Safari  Park today with our group. The Park is really fun because you can get really close to the animals. Highlights were the tigers, feeding the giraffes, seeing the pandas and the 4-d movie (well not for Ashling-Disney may have to wait!). It was a humid day and our guide pushed us along at a ridiculous pace but the kids were troopers and had a blast!

Other than a well-deserved meltdown at dinosaur land (they were scary) Ashling was at her best today! She was 100% Ms. Ashling today chatting up a storm and loving the animals. Her favorite phrase is “Mama look at this.” She is amazed by everything. We are so blown away by our new daughter…

The night ended with an impromptu trip to the pool that turned into the adults hanging out with wine while the kids got a really long swim in. The weather was perfect and it was a great way to relax. The hotel pool is beautiful and the girls (Keira and some friends from the trip) wanted to check out the big indoor hot tub so I took them. Much to our shock, the women in the hot tub were naked. They were not expecting a bunch of kids. Just when I thought it could not get worse with shreiking 6 years old girls, the boys decided to barge in. Let’s just say, we had a good laugh and almost got thrown out of the pool 🙂

A great vacation day and 3 amazing kiddos! Tomorrow, we return back to adoption world with an early morning appointment at the US Consulate for a visa for Ashling and an oath taking ceremony. Ashling will become a US citizen upon entry into the US so we need to take care of the endless paperwork here.

We cant believe how quickly this trip is going by and are really looking forward to the rest of the week!

Shamian Island and Ms. Ashling

Today was a free day so, this morning, we went to Shamian Island with two other families. The Island is a historical location in Guangzhou.  It’s famous for its sculptures and is overall a pleasant place to spend a few hours.  And yes I am totally loving twin dressing  Keira and Ashling 🙂

We spent the afternoon hanging around the hotel room before having an easy dinner and letting the kids play at the indoor playground. The hotel here has a great lounge that is well worth the $ because it offers endless snacks and wine  and a chance for the kids to play without having to sit at another restaurant. Eating 3 meals out for 2+ weeks is hard on the kiddos ( and even harder on the parents!).

Ashling is doing wonderfully but she is a very different kid outside versus in the comfort of our hotel room. In our hotel room, she is bubbly, mischievous, loud, loving and starting to repeat our English words.  She has started calling herself Ashling-Nana and it is so cute. This side of her comes out sometimes when we are out but more often than not – in the last few days – she has been withdrawn and stubborn when we are with her in busy places. (Those of you traveling with us know what I am talking about!). Othertimes, she is 100% Ms. Ashling and makes everyone smile.

It is all normal and, while it is frustrating at times, I have to remind myself that she has only been with us a week and she is doing wonderfully and fits in perfectly with our family.

Tomorrow is the safari park and we are so excited for it!!

China Special Needs

Yesterday was a real travel day. Our 11 am flight did not leave until 7 pm due to severe weather in Guangzhou. (better than another flight delayed due to “military activity”). All the kiddos were amazing but we didn’t get to our room in Guangzhou to 1 am and it was a really long day.

I was going to blog yesterday about our new way of ordereing food–Google translator and asking them to Order for us and how shockingly well it worked out (so far…) but I was just too tired last night. Or how the reastuarnt videoed us eating lunch….

We have arrived in Guangzhou. We have a fun week ahead and I know its going to fly by too quickly. The weather was great today and although it is rainy season we are hoping the sun sneaks out everyday.

Today was Ashling’s medical appointment for her exits visit. As some of you may know, both Connor and Ashling have been adopted through a program called China Special Needs. There is a huge range of special needs available and the wait to adopt often depends on what special needs the adopting parents are open to. China allows children to get exit permits much faster with special needs, making the process much quicker and much more stabile. It’s an amazing program.

Connor was born with a cleft lip/palate and general small height/weight (now he’s 60% for height and 80% for weight…)  This time around we assumed we would be doing a cleft lip/palate again.  However, Ashling’s special need is completely different. I have been quiet about it because we just don’t have an understanding of it. She has a spinal issue that may be a fluid mass at birth or maybe a form of spinal bifida or something else. We won’t know until we get an MRI done and an evaluation by a neurologist, but whatever it is, we are ready for it.  She clearly is a smart, extremely active and potty trained little girl. We truly take for granted the medical care we have available to us!

The appointment today if often considered a hard day (and it was) because it involves the children being seen by many different doctors in a room of chaos. It ends with the children being taken from their new parents into a separate room to get blood tests done. It’s rough for everyone.

However it also amazing to see the beautiful children being given a new opportunity and the range of the special needs of the children joining their new families. There was a beautiful child with down syndrome joining a family who had a bunch of grown children. Truly heart warming.

Meanwhile our 5+ hotel has a Starbucks and is next to a McDonalds and you can imagine both Keira’s and my excitements-for very different reasons!